Xe (xe, xem, xyr, xyrs, xemself)
Xe/Xem are a set of gender-neutral pronouns used to refer to people who do not identify with the traditional gender binary of man or woman. They are part of a larger category known as neopronouns, which are new pronouns created to be more inclusive of a wide range of gender identities. The terms are used in the same way as common pronouns: “Xe” is the subject pronoun (like “he” or “she”), “xem” is the object pronoun (like “him” or “her”), and “xyr” is the possessive pronoun (like “his” or “her”).
These pronouns are most often used by nonbinary or genderqueer individuals who feel that standard pronouns like “they/them” do not fit their identity. For them, using “xe/xem” can be a specific way to express a unique and personal gender identity that exists outside of binary categories. Using a person’s correct pronouns, including neopronouns, is a fundamental way to show respect for their identity and is a core part of being an ally to the transgender and nonbinary communities.