I became a Peer Parent and Mentor because I’ve lived the fear, heartache, and uncertainty of navigating a child’s mental health and substance use challenges. When my son was 16, my husband and I made the incredibly difficult decision to send him to residential treatment and sober living. It was one of the hardest choices of my life, but also one of the most impactful, one that ultimately helped him find sobriety. At the time, I felt lost and overwhelmed, but through the support of other parents who had been there, I slowly found my footing.
Later, when my daughter struggled with social anxiety and depression, I realized just how much my experience with my son had prepared me to show up differently, with more patience, understanding, and trust. I no longer felt the same urgency to “fix” things. Instead, I learned to walk alongside my children, offering them support without trying to control their outcomes.
That shift in me didn’t happen overnight. It took time, guidance, and most importantly connection with parents who understood. Their kindness and wisdom helped me find the strength and acceptance I needed. That experience is what drives me to do the same for others.
Alongside my work with OPLM, I facilitate a local support meeting at a recovery center, run weekly parent meetings for my son’s former treatment centers, and manage a media page dedicated to supporting families. I also volunteer as a Guardian ad Litem, advocating for children in difficult circumstances.
I know how isolating this path can feel, but I also know the power of being surrounded by people who get it. You don’t have to go through this alone. I’m here to listen, to walk with you, and to remind you that no matter where you are in this process, there is hope.